On the way home today I thought up this amazing rant that I wanted to go on. And what better place than the Interwebs. Not surprising I forgot it because I was too smart to write it down when I got home. I think it had something to do with women, or work, or money, or people in general, I don't *beep* remember. But it was good, maybe Earth shattering.
So in place of a potentially smarter rant I offer up some of my observations, over the past few months, of what I've found when trying to make plans with people. Perhaps a few of you will recognize this from my Facebook status earlier today but here's a slight revision.
I don't know what it is lately but it seems to be the way things are heading, Facebook is becoming more and more stagnant. I use that word with a grain of salt because people are still using Facebook with increasing frequency but it seems to have lost the social aspect it once had. What I mean is people have just stopped giving a *beep* what other people say. You try and open the floor to an opinion, thought or anecdote and it's just passes over everyone. The same can be said with trying to make plans over Facebook, you try and gather a group to do something fun and there's just no response. To be truthful it's not just Facebook, people don't respond to texts anymore, and always act non committal on the phone, so really there's no effective way to make plans anymore. I don't know if this stems from some sort of innate self indulgence, or if everyone has suddenly adopted the "go with the flow" or "you only live once" attitude, but it's bordering on disturbing right now. And seriously, *beep* Drake.
Now I get that people have lives and make plans in other places, and that makes perfect sense, but surely the law of averages says somebody will want to do something with you at sometime. So when I'm commenting several times a week that "Hey I've found something exciting to do and I want you there" a little part of me expects some sort of response. In my core group of real life friends there are 3 of us that are pretty much up for anything at any time, providing it's within reason, and then there are a few that pop in and out. It seems as though the art of planning a group event is gone and everybody is spread thinly about and doing individual activities all over the city with no desire to do what someone else wants to do. And again, I get that the idea of a group activity is to kind of take a vote or decide on something as a group.
I also understand that there's almost a little hypocrisy here as, at times, I certainly have a tendency to make myself seem like the most important thing in the world. However it's almost as though having a Facebook has become more inconsequential than ever, and that's saying a lot. We're at a point where there's almost, um, no point, to having one. I don't know if any of you feel the same but I do know I'm not the only one who has observed this as one of my friends has deleted his Facebook account for just this reason. Beside that point I see his self imposed lockout lasting no more than a few days tops.
Now that I've most assuredly bullied you all into thinking I'm a sort of emo, self loathing creature, I choose to retire for the night. Anyone want to join me in bed?
Oh, and before I forget, this is probably the best idea ever had. A room of pillows.