I live in NJ and luckily I was spared both storms. My neighborhood didn't do as well. My next door neighbor lost power for a week. (Different power grid) And all family members scattered throught New Jersey (seven of them) lost power for up to a week.
I live over an hour away from my nearest relative. With the gas shortage, no one could drive up to my place so I've been stressed not being any help.
The people at the shore are the ones that got the most damage. Time will repair it all. New Jersey relies alot on the tax and tourist income at the shore so it will definitely be rebuilt.